There are small moments in our lives that define us. Moments being choices. All throughout our day we make these life changing choices that determine whether we will succeed or fail. We can recognize them or ignore them. Every time we do, we allow them in and they define us, thus improving ourselves and our lives, or not.
I say small moments, but some are not so small are they? Our choices in the end will remain for a lifetime. Not only in us, but in our children, people we love and people who might have limited contact with us. It’s the heart that really matters so I find it important to try to improve, nurture and never forget the way you feel in these little turns of fate. For our lives are made in these moments.
You might think it’s hard, but I have news for you, it’s not. It is merely a choice that comes in an instant and then it’s gone. Choices being to smile or not, read something that will help you improve your life or sit down and watch a television show that will take away your IQ. I’m not saying TV is bad, but our choice to watch to much of it is.
Wiser choices would be:
- Get up before the kids, so you have all your needed things accomplished before seeing their sweet faces in the morning.
- Don’t do drugs.
- Think before speaking.
- Ask yourself if you really need to spend money on something you will get rid of in a months time.
The decision to make these wiser choices will eliminate this outcome:
- Having the kids wake you up with yelling and screaming, hungry bellies and for you a headache before even leaving the bed.
- Early death and or health issues that lead to loneliness and depression.
- People who don’t take your word to be worth anything.
- Financially stressed.
You tell me, which is the better choice? How we speak, what we buy, what we eat. These are the little turns of fate we make for ourselves and reap the benefits they will produce over time whether they be good or bad. Make the right choices and let clarity of thought and a sound decision define you.
You decide to rise or fall, be rich or poor, in shape or not, happy, sad or angry. You may think I am crazy but it is proven time and time again. If you put your energy into something you will reap the outcome. Make sure then to choose wisely so your decisions will take you where you want to go in life.
For more on getting to where you want to go visit: Affirmations and the Power They Have